by Kathryn VanArendonk | via Vulture
As many critics have noted, The Carmichael Showโs brilliance partially lies in the way it uses a deliberately conservative structure to explore tricky, controversial issues.
Weโre now so inured to the Norman Lear multi-cam style that it lulls us into a sense of security. Even when sitcoms that look like this veer into Very Special Episode territory, the fundamental structure of the show is soothing. How can it be current or controversial? It looks like an episode of Growing Pains!
Putting an iron fist in a velvet glove is central to The Carmichael Showโs premise, introducing the opportunity to use its main characters as a Socratic dialogue. Everybody gets to represent a perspective on the issue of the day, allowing the chosen topic to bounce around various angles and viewpoints. (Ever notice how Carmichael rarely has guest stars? Theyโre beside the point. Why bring in outside voices when the Carmichael family is a fully functional discursive forum all on its own?)
Of course, this is all familiar ground to Carmichael viewers, but I bring it up here because these elements are so fundamental to the showโs DNA that they tend to also be responsible for its successes. And, yes, theyโre equally responsible for moments when it falls short. This weekโs โFacebook Friendsโ does both.
The topic of the week is social media, as the episodeโs title suggests. Itโs a hard issue to talk about clearly at any length and in any context, much less in the skeleton of a fictional form that came to power long before personal computers existed. So, the degree to which โFacebook Friendsโ manages to say several compelling and funny things about what itโs like to live online is already impressive. Our entrance to the topic is Joe, who gets a โFacebook websiteโ after asking Cynthia to take 25 different profile pictures before landing on one that he likes. Heโs got 52 friends, Bobbyโs reading his status updates out loud at the barbershop โ he is โkilling it.โ Jerrodโs none too pleased by this, given that no one seems to enjoy his deliberately offensive Twitter persona as much as they like Facebook Joe. But heโs much better off than Cynthia, who gets quite angry when she learns that Joeโs ex-girlfriend Vicki โMuffin Topโ Collette friended him, and is now clearly trawling for a reconnection.
The debate about social media raises a few divisive questions. What responsibility do you have to those in your private life for the things you post online? At what point does Joeโs fairly innocuous online friendship with Vicki become something that Cynthia has a right to police? Or, as we soon see, how much of a right does Jerrod have to get angry at Maxine for posting a naked photo of herself on Instagram? How much say should Maxine get in Jerrodโs troll-ish Twitter identity?
The broader issue โ the responsibility caught up between a personโs private relationships and his or her public online persona โ is the main focus of the episode, but the topic inevitably also pulls up a random assortment of comments about internet culture and social media. Some of these ring eerily true: Cynthiaโs close-reading of Vickiโs โhey youโ versus a simple โhey,โ the description of a Facebook like as meaning โI see youโ more than โI like this,โ the pressure Joe feels to maintain his โkilling itโ Facebook presence, and the ease with which Cynthia glides into cyberbullying all feel accurate and funny.
Although the other descriptions sound a bit out of step with current social practices (oh hey, Snapchat exists!), for the most part, โFacebook Friendsโ is an impressive consideration of some important internet-culture debates. And the subject is unquestionably an interesting one โ one I havenโt seen discussed thoughtfully all that often. How much your internet behavior reflects on your partner, and whether your partner should get a say in your choices, is a debate Iโm very happy to see get thoughtful attention.
To read the rest of the recap, “Facebook Friends,” click HERE!!!
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