Master of None (Recap) | First Date (S2 E4)

Man in a suit lounging on a couch, looking at his phone.

by Vikram Murthi | via Vulture

In 2015, Aziz Ansari and sociologist Eric Klinenberg co-wrote Modern Romance: An Investigation, a book that explored changes in coupling and dating patterns in the most recent decade.

In it, he considered the idea of โ€œoverchoiceโ€ in relationships, a concept first introduced in Alvin Tofflerโ€™s 1971 book Future Shock, and later explored in Barry Schwartzโ€™s 2004 book The Paradox of Choice. Ansari essentially argues that having more options to meet potential mates seems superficially good, but tends to make the actual process of choice much more difficult and can ultimately lead to less romantic fulfillment.

โ€œFirst Dateโ€ functions like a comedic offshoot of that idea, along with other insights explored in Modern Romance. The episode follows Dev on a series of first dates from the Love at First Sight app, except all the dates are edited together, creating the illusion that Dev is on one long first date with a rotating cast of women. Itโ€™s an effective formal trick that facilitates a funny vignette style and dovetails well with the episodeโ€™s โ€œparadox of choiceโ€ theme. Dev goes out on a lot of dates, but just because he has ready access to many women doesnโ€™t inherently lead to more chances for a good time, let alone sex or even a genuine connection.

Itโ€™s somewhat of a basic idea that makes intuitive sense, especially to those in Devโ€™s age demographic. Overchoice has always existed, but itโ€™s more readily perceptible with the rise of the internet and other technology. If โ€œFirst Dateโ€ has any one flaw, itโ€™s that it takes the profundity of that concept as a given. Ansari and Yang thankfully donโ€™t make it explicit, but they fill the episode with plenty of thematic winking that feels heavy-handed even when itโ€™s understated.

However, โ€œFirst Dateโ€ largely succeeds because itโ€™s both frequently funny and the date(s) themselves are grounded in recognizable human behavior. One woman openly admits to mooching off her parentsโ€™ money just to screw around, another awkwardly excuses herself at a dinner table to snort cocaine in the bathroom, and yet another openly scrolls a dating app in front of Dev under the guise of an emergency. These all feel like modern bad-date stories that occur when youโ€™re primarily meeting new people through the internet.

Lest you think the episode demonizes women by only featuring โ€œbadโ€ matches, Ansari and Yang counter those negative experiences with more positive ones. Dev has initially favorable experiences with Christine (Lauren Miller Rogen), a white employee who works at a dog hotel; Priya (Tiya Sircar), a friendly Indian woman; Diana (Condola Rashad), Devโ€™s black actor colleague previously featured in the first-season episode โ€œLadies and Gentlemenโ€; and Stephanie (Aparna Nancherla), a pro wrestlingโ€“obsessed ramen blogger.

Most of the fun of โ€œFirst Dateโ€ derives from the strange interludes that occur throughout the evening: One date indifferently Snapchats a fistfight on the street while Dev calls the police, a Syrian war reporter friend of another date makes Dev feel insecure, and so on. But as the evening winds down and Dev makes a pass at each woman with whom he connected, he receives different responses. Stephanie informs him that she has a boyfriend and only uses the app to make friends. Diana says they should just remain friends. Priya and Dev politely kiss and make plans to meet up again next week. Dev and Christine passionately make out and end up sleeping together.

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